My time in Seattle has not been as I would have liked it to be. The catastrophic news is that I am not fit to carry on with the race. I am absolutely devastated. Right from the start, it was the whole circumnavigation or nothing. Doing six legs of the eight is not what I set out to do.
Let me rewind. After getting in to Seattle early evening, I decided to hold off the hospital visit until the following morning. I had the accident ten or so days ago – another twelve hours wouldn’t make that much difference. I went to the Emergency Room at the Virginia Mason Hospital the following morning, and the service there was impeccable. And very quick. The various departments were literally queuing up to get me done. I had about 15 x-rays, a cat scan and ultrasound on both my legs. I was looked after so well – even given a warm blanket (and I mean warm, it was heated) to put over me. The doctor then came back in to give me the bad news. “When are you leaving” she asked. “Thursday, with the boats” I replied. “No, I don’t think you are. You have chipped your humerus in two places, and have a fracture. You have also torn your rotator cuff and will need an operation to repair it. Your shoulder needs to be immobile for six to eight weeks for a start.” That brought me back down to earth with a bump. If anything, I thought I may have had a bleed in my head as I hit it so hard, or my legs might have had something worse wrong with them, either of which may have stopped me from sailing on Thursday. I really didn’t think that my arm was broken. Unfortunately, there was no grey area – I was not able to get back on the boat whatever I did between then and when we left.
I left the hospital in a bit of a daze. For the last eight months I have been battling both mentally and physically with a challenge that I knew I would struggle with. I thought I was winning. I thought if I could get to the USA I would be able to make it back to London. Now my challenge has come to an end. I am going home. But I am not ready to go home. However long I sat and imagined I was at home on those long, lonely night shifts, now is not the time to go. But there is no choice. I can’t move my right arm, so realistically I know that is the only option. I feel a complete failure.
So many people have said to me how well I have done to come so far, how well I have done to cross the Pacific, etc etc. I know all of that. But it doesn’t make me feel any better. Every time someone starts to talk about it to me, I have tears well up in my eyes. Every time someone sends me a lovely message via Facebook or text or email, I have a little cry. I won’t get this chance again – I have blown it. For being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Wendo has been diagnosed with a fractured rib to add to her head injury, but has been declared fit to go. I am the only one being sent home.
For the last few days I have been going backwards and forwards to the hospital for various tests. I am still waiting for an MRI scan on my shoulder to confirm how badly the rotator cuff is torn, before knowing what sort of surgery I need. I am in the hands of the insurance, which means all is not going smoothly. The MRI couldn’t be done at the time I was in the Emergency Room as my upper arm was still fairly swollen. I have been given pills to reduce the swelling, and told to make an appointment for the MRI. The insurance initially said that as it was a non-emergency procedure they would not cover it. But then they made an appointment with an orthopaedic surgeon. To cut a long story short, I needed to have had the MRI before going to the orthopaedic surgeon, so he has all information to hand. The insurance, after agreeing that I needed an MRI, have now decided that they won’t cover the cost of the MRI, but I still have to go to the surgeon. Not sure what the point is there.
My appointment is 9.00am tomorrow morning, and Paul flies home the next morning. At the moment I don’t have a seat booked until I am given a Fit to Fly certificate, hopefully tomorrow. It is all getting just a little bit messy.
I have not been the best of company for Paul this trip – I am so glad he is here, but I think he may think differently. I am frustrated, deflated and generally unhappy with everything that is going on. We have changed hotels three times, and even went in seven places this morning for breakfast before I found one that I was happy with. I think he may prefer to fly home on his own in peace!
Apart from that, we have shared some lovely times with my fabulous Clipper family. Chewie and Emily are both here, and are both getting back on the boat for the next leg. I have done all the spreadsheets, menus and shopping lists for the victualling, but the one day I went to Costco I realised that was just a bit beyond my ability at this particular time. It made me feel so ill – and I had to go back to the hospital on the insurance’s request to have my legs checked over again for blood clots. They are still very bruised and extremely swollen from my knees down past my ankles and my feet. Any time I spend without having them raised, they start to get worse. OK for a little while, but spending hours in Costco was not ideal. I had to admit defeat on the victualling and hand it over to someone else. Or a group of people actually – no one person wanted to do it, funnily enough.
Each boat was sponsored for a night out by someone from Seattle, and ours was Ivar’s Seafood Restaurant.
It was fantastic. I had the best and biggest lobster I have ever had. It was beautiful.
And who turned up? Sandra from Leg Four. What a lovely surprise. She now calls herself our official stalker. Long way to come for a free meal! (Although I have been known to do something very similar!!)
I have also been to my first baseball game. The Visit Seattle Skipper Huw Fernie was pitching the first ball at the Seattle Mariners vs Houston Astros game at the Safeco Field Stadium, so all the Clipper Race people had the option of buying tickets. There was a lot of us there. Huw did very well, although I don’t think he would make an interview short list.
The game lasted about three and a half hours, and the two exciting bits were over in about a minute each. There was one home run in the whole game, which was the most exciting. The rest was a bit like watching paint dry. But we stuck it out – hundreds didn’t. It was quite cold by the end. The amount of food that was consumed by the average fan was enormous – the whole stadium was packed with food outlets as well as people going around with trays of food as well. Some of the locals had trouble fitting into their seats!
So, tomorrow I go back to the hospital again. The day after that the boats leave for New York. Without me. There has been talk of having “guest writers” of my blog. So many people have said they will miss having a blow by blow account of what is going on. Especially those that have family onboard. We will wait and see if that materialises………………………..
——————————-
If you like Bridget’s blogs please give a fiver to her charity.
https://www.justgiving.com/bridgetkeevil/
To all who have donated – you have helped raise £3,813.01 so far.
Many many thanks.
Nana Noels said:
Bridget, So sorry to read that you are unable to do the next couple of Legs and understand how disappointed you must be but your health and comfort must be put ahead of all else. Rotator cuff…..yes takes a while to recover after surgery (I know just been there, done that), requires a lot of effort and patience but someone with your determination and courage will be able to do it!
You are right we will miss your amazing blogs, however am sure all your readers would rather you get the treatment you need and find your smile and wit as soon as possible. Safe travels home and look forward to hearing how your recovery is going.
LikeLike
Verenna Finaly said:
The Finlay family will miss your blogs! Our son Ryan is a RTW on Telemed! Hope you heal fast & well! Safe journey home!
LikeLike
Michael Dowling said:
Sorry to read ,that you have to leave so soon.Youre articles have been gripping reading and most informative.Can you tell us how my friend Rowena is doing and wish her well from us ,Michael (hairdresser)and Tuulikki
LikeLike
Corin Germany said:
Feel so sad but so pleased and proud of what you have actually achieved, take care. xxx
LikeLike
Jill Oakman said:
Hi Bridget I am so sorry you won’t be able to finish the race, and I Will miss your blogs so much. But you have to take care of yourself no one can do that as good as you can. So I wish you the best of luck and a speedy recovery. Cheers Jill
LikeLike
David Eley said:
Hi, We have never met, my brother who lives in the same village is Rob Eley and I have followed the race via your blog even after he left the boat in Airlee Beach. I read this email with tears in my eyes and feel gutted for you . You are definitely not a failure and have achieved far more than most of us ever will, the Pacific leg still remains empty in Rob’s log despite having sailed on two clipper seasons ! Get well soon and don’t beat yourself up Regards David Eley
Date: Wed, 27 Apr 2016 06:19:16 +0000 To: davideley@hotmail.co.uk
LikeLike
Brian Challis said:
So sorry to hear you’re not able to fulfil your dream Bridget, but a failure? BULLSHIT!
A failure you most certainly are NOT, so stop thinking that. You have inspired so many of us, none of whom would have even started such an adventure let alone COMPLETED -note Completed, Six legs!
After time I’m sure you will come to terms with having to retire from the Race and whilst you will undoubtedly be massively disappointed, you have to focus on the positive things that you have achieved, and realise that this incident could have easily ended so, so much worse….
I’m looking forward to attending your first inspirational talk/presentation, so you’d best get writing it!
You take care, and we all look forward to giving you a BIG hug soon.
xx
LikeLike
Susan Parsons said:
Down but not out! You are not alone, Chewie and crew on other boats have had to sit out a few legs due injuries.
You’ve achieved more in 8 months than most of us will do in a life time.
I too will miss your blogs and look forward to the presentation!
Susan x
LikeLike
Jenny Lloyd said:
Hi Bridget, I feel that I know you well and that you are now a ‘best friend’ from reading all of you tweets. I can understand how downhearted you are because you cannot finish the race but Bridget don’t think about that, think about what you have acheived. You are amazing and put the rest of us that have not taken on this challenge to shame. I hope your hospital visits go well for you and that you are able to fly home. I undertsand the ‘insurance’ problems I had the same recently with my friend going in hospital in Tenerife, but I fought them and got a full refund plus £25! Bridget you are amazing and I know that you are very dissappointed but take care of yourself and who knows never say never again, you may get the chance another time.
Lots of Love thinking of you. xx
LikeLike
Margaret Marks said:
Dear Bridget, We will miss hearing from you. We have looked forward to hearing your honest and well written blogs. I am so sorry that you are not able to continue your dream but glad that you will recover. There is absolutely no shame in retiring .You have done more than most of us could ever dream of. We think you are amazing. Now you can give some thought to writing a book of your journey and /or a Victuallers guide for ocean travel. I am sure Clipper would value that. I feel that we may meet you sometime somewhere. Perhaps you will visit Kirsty someday and we can meet you too? Take care of yourself and Paul. Cherish your memories and look forward to making some new ones. Lots of love, Margaret Marks (Nanna) xxx
LikeLike
Lindsay Thomas said:
Hi Bridget. Hope all goes well and smoothly at the hospital tomorrow and that you are back on the road to recovery ASAP. I will be thinking of you as face the next weeks of treatment to get yourself better.perhaps not how you thought you would spend the last part of your circumnavigation but still part of the whole Clipper experience. I applaud you for achieving so much in the last 8 months going half way round the world and crossing the mighty Pacific. A feat not to be sneezed at. The next weeks will test your determination and challenge you in a slightly different way but I know you will come out on top as you have already shown great determination and strength over the last 8 months. I wish you a speedy recovery and hope to see you to meet the Awesone Da Nangers as they return to London. Mama Nugget. X
LikeLike
Izzie O'Riordan said:
Bridget you are such a superstar! In no way shape or form are you a failure you are an inspiration to so many, what you have endured over these past 8 months is phenomenal and to raise money at the same time for ABTA LifeLine is honourable. To repeat what the others have said – looking forward to a presentation!!
LikeLike
Pattie Simpson said:
Bridget, I concur with ALL of the above comments, but as we say in Oz, SHIT HAPPENS! You are an amazing lady who has followed her dream, and experienced far more than most of us couch surfers will ever do. So remember the past months with joy. I wish you all the best in the future, and I’m sure you will be waiting on the dock in London to be reunited with your team mates.
LikeLike
Joy Ward said:
We can only but imagine your great disappointment as we know you would never have given up.We are really sorry that you are unable to continue with your journey but this decision was not your call.
You have gained such a lot of sailing knowledge and added further to your worldly experiences.
Your organizational skills in the Victualling Dept. will be much missed as it is such a vital part of the well being of the crew.
Failure is not a word that you should ever contemplate you have conquered oceans and achieved so much that most would never ever consider , so WELL DONE Bridget.
We will miss you blogs and wish you a speedy recovery.
Love
Joy and Brian xx
LikeLike
Mary Barton said:
Bridget you have done so well over the last 8 months and you must feel so gutted as I do that you can’t finish the race. I have loved reading your blog and will miss you and it . I’m pleased you are getting good treatment for your injuries. The pain over the last 10 days must have been tremendous. Get well soon. Have a good flight home and safe journey to Suffolk. Best Wishes
LikeLike
Lesley said:
You are far from being a failure Bridget… I have been so inspired by your drive and determination. You should be really, really proud of yourself. Get better very quickly. Lesley D. x
LikeLike
Lorraine Adams - Sandals said:
All I can say is, that I have loved your blogs and admire your courage Bridget – get well soon. Big hugs from meeee xxxx
LikeLike
Clara Bowhill said:
Never a failure, you’ve seen and achieved way more than most and had the bottle to just attempt it, let alone get this far.
LikeLike
Susan Skinner said:
Bridget, you are certainly not a failure and when you have had time to reflect on your time on Da Nang you will understand how much you have achieved , indeed a challenge most mortals could never achieve. We are so glad you are safe and sound and back with Paul. We wish you a speedy recovery. Susan and Bob
LikeLike
Wendy Wheatley said:
Bridget you have done so amazingly well, we have so enjoyed your blogs . You must not feel any disappointment or failure what you have achieved is fantastic but now you must put your health first and take it easy . Be proud you’ve done brilliantly we can only imagine a bit of what you have endured one night across the channel in a force 8 was enough for me . Safe journey home xx
LikeLike
Izzie O'Riordan said:
Bridget you absolute superstar, far from a failure!
What an incredible challenge to take on and not only that but to raise funds and awareness for ABTA LifeLine too! We are determined to help you reach your target 🙂
Cannot wait to hear the presentation, no doubt it will be inspirational!
Keep smiling 🙂
LikeLike
james said:
Absoltely nothing but pride and total admiration for even thinking of this huge adventure, yet alone coping so wonderfully with everything that nature threw at you.
Everyone who knows you will be envious, they will admire your courage, your belief, and your efforts for the team, they will just be envious that they(and me) didn’t have teh sheer guts to take the adventure on.
You are a sportsperson who got injured in a big game, and have to come to the dressing room,
You will return with your pride intact, you can hold that little head high, and we will all be banging on your door to see our loved Bridget back home.
Take care little one…see ya soon
James & Jenny xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
LikeLike
Anna ARnold said:
I’m so sorry to hear that you cannot carry on, I know how much it all meant to you, but as the others have said your health does come first. Looking forward to having you back lots of love xxx
LikeLike
Marydel Powell said:
you are not a failure in any way. you have achieved so much and are still an inspiration and we have been able to live the race through your very honest blogs. you have done what most of us would not even entertain. well done Bridget – we will look forward to welcoming home our brave heroine. lots of love to you and Paul. mary and ray
LikeLike
Annette Di Giovanna said:
Bridget, I know you said that kind messages make you tearful, so I’ll try not to be nice !! I well remember you telling me in Cape Town how large your challenges were, but that you were still an equal team member, a point i think you’ve more than proved over the months. The fact that you were one of the few who could be on deck, that day speaks of your reslove. I can only imagine how devastasing the end of your race must be for you, but as everyone has said, to say you are a failure is just wrong or rather total BS! I hope in time you will realise this for yourself. In the meantime, get well and i hope you can soon only remember the good times. Look forward to seeing you at St Kats. xx
LikeLike
joanne Fogarty said:
Bridget, I am so impressed with how you’ve presented yourself to the outside world. You took on a HUGE challenge, and completed most of it, retaining your sense of humor and positive attitude more than anyone else ever would have. Your blog has been amazingly entertaining, mostly because you are “everyman” the little guy who tries and (against the odds) succeeds.
You should be incredibly proud of yourself for not only completing 6 of 8 legs, but also for not quitting EVER. You were pulled due to medical reasons. So NOT a failure — you went down FIGHTING, woman!
LikeLike
Carrol and Trevor S said:
So sorry Bridget. Get well soon. You may feel blown out but you blew us all away. Hang in there!
LikeLike
David Graney said:
Bridget there is no one on the boat I admire more than you your courage to not only take on the trip but do it in the courageous way you have has been inspirational to not only me but the whole crew you have put most of us to shame! Your blog has so many followers including all of my family and friends the pressure is now back on me to report back. I do so admire the way, given a task to do you were not the fastest but you were the most consistent in doing it hour after hour if necessary without any complaint. It was an absolute pleasure to have you on board and I am so sorry you could not complete your full journey. I know it is no consolation but you have completed far more ocean miles than most “ocean racers” congratulations and very well done and thanks for your assistance and wise council in Da Nang see you in London and when you and Paul come to Tassie to stay with us?
LikeLike
Susan Parsons said:
David
I’m a travel trade colleague of Bridget’s and, like everyone else, have thoroughly enjoyed her blogs. Indeed, it is always the first email I look for in the morning.
It would be good if you could take up the mantle, particularly as the official crew reports on the website are spasmodic. I’m sure Paul/Bridget would edit them for you, given the dodgy keyboard on Flo!
If you use a different address, please do send me the link.
One thought – could the Clipper Race give consideration to a blogger award – there could be no better winner than Bridget.
All the best to you and Flo’s crew for the next 2 legs.
Susan (Parsons)
LikeLike
Esther Spence said:
Bridget, I think you are an inspiration. You should be incredibly proud of yourself…lots of people all over the world who have read your blog, and will probably never meet you are proud of you and inspired by you. Try not to beat yourself up. One day I really hope you can look back and feel proud.
Lots of love to you
Esther (James’ sister in law)
LikeLike
Sylvie said:
Hello from France ! I’m planning to do the 2017-2018 race (a couple of legs) and I discovered your blog not a long time ago. It was so useful for me to have a real insight of how things really happen, and you made me laugh so much as well. And being so sad as well reading your last (?) post…
You are a great person, Bridget, And a great writer too. Such an incredible trip you made… I can understand your disapointment and your sadness but just look back and start to realize what you have achieved. You can just be proud…
Take care and give some news to your international fans 😄
Sylvie
LikeLike